Groom wizard steps 1-15: critique/harden/polish pass

- [P0] CrematoriumStep: Fix <option> → <MenuItem> in priority select
- [P1] All form steps: Add aria-busy={loading} + loading guard on submit
- [P1] Error messages: Replace color="error" (red) with copper
  (var(--fa-color-text-brand)) across ProvidersStep, PackagesStep,
  VenueStep, CrematoriumStep, CemeteryStep, CoffinsStep, PaymentStep
- [P2] IntroStep: "Has the person died?" → "Has this person passed away?"
- [P2] DateTimeStep: "About the person who died" → "who has passed"
- [P2] ProvidersStep: "Showing results from X" → "X providers found"
- [P2] Empty states: Add guidance text for ProvidersStep, PackagesStep,
  VenueStep, CoffinsStep empty results

Steps 4, 13, 15 passed with no issues.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/components/pages/CoffinDetailsStep/CoffinDetailsStep.tsx

@@ -272,9 +272,10 @@ export const CoffinDetailsStep: React.FC<CoffinDetailsStepProps> = ({
       <Box
         component="form"
         noValidate
+        aria-busy={loading}
         onSubmit={(e: React.FormEvent) => {
           e.preventDefault();
-          onContinue();
+          if (!loading) onContinue();
         }}
       >
         <OptionSection